Erotic & Sensual Domination.

I am a lifestyle Mistress with a deep passion for sensual and sexual domination. I am fascinated by the combination of sadism with erotic control.

It's a challenge and a joy (yes, I do smile in session) for me to gain entry to my submissive's psyche. I'm naturaly a very intuitive Mistress so developing my powers of empathy over the years has come naturally to me. The more I can empathise with my submissives and slaves, the more satisfying the session is for both of us.

My greatest reward is to watch you go through the spectrum of anticipation ... shock ... pain ... fear ..... and finally the dark look of sexual arousal which tells me I have you right where I want you - totally under my control until I allow your release. Or not.

I have no desire to stomp around shouting abuse at you. I don't need to. And why would I want to?  Consider a confident command, whispered up close in your ear with the threat of punishment if you disobey or you don't please me. It will send a cold shiver up your spine and bring a slow, sadistic smile to my face.

I'm not a fan of the 'look at my feet routine', either. You can expect a lot of eye contact in session with me. That way, I can read your emotions better and it heightens the intensity between us.  Which brings me neatly to:

Orgasm Control & Denial.

This really does it for me.  It varies from on submissive to another and from session to session. Sometimes it's fun, sometimes it gives me sadistic amusement, other times it's horny as fuck.  However things evolve in session, for me it is the ultimate in female domination. To control your erection, to torment you, to choose your moment of climax for you - it's such an exciting and very powerful way of showing you that your cock and orgasm belong to me. Submissives report that this sort of control can result in a very, very intense orgasm. You have been warned. Read more about this in a post called Making Your Life a Misery in my blog.

Humiliation

Mmm ... another of my favourites. And it can vary so much from one submissive to the next. One man's erotic humilation is another man's turn off. That's where I come in. If there is any part of your mind that is aroused by humiliation, I will find the activity that switches it on, whether it be laughing at your tiny penis, slapping your face or parading you around with gag, collar and lead before ordering you to hump the furniture. All for my amusement, naturally.

Sweetly Sadistic.

I love to inflict pain. It's as simple as that. My mean fingers, clamps, pegs, violet wand, electro-box, needles, magnetic nipple balls .... they all come in handy! My set of urethral sounds are a big favourite of mine. Not torture at all but cold, smooth and invasive. How deliciously submissive for you, to hand over your cock to me to use as my toy.

Imprisonment & Confinement.

A very powerful experience.  I'll leave it to your imagination.
We have a fantastic cell for this at the Leeds/Bradford Chambers of Deprivation. (Photo below right), oh, and of course there's the very versatile gibbet you can see at the top of the page.

The Mind Fuck.

Where do we go with this one? Well that depends on you, of course. That's why we talk first. The more you tell me about yourself, the more power I hold. I've always had a thing about delving into people's minds. I love to find that tender spot and bring it out so I can play with it. It's not always easy but the rewards are huge. I have enormous respect for any submissive who is willing to put himself in such a vulnerable place.  I believe that exposing your innermost fears and handing them on a plate for me to play with, is a strengthening process in the long run.

Corporal Punishment.

This can be done in many ways: a good old fashioned spanking or slippering as part of a strict, disciplining Mistress scene; an uncomplicated fix of caning, tawsing, paddling etc, or combined with other activities to send you home with buttocks that are hot and sore. I'm always careful not to leave marks if you don't want them and will ask about this pre-session.  I find CP sessions are a great balance to the heavier D/s sessions I love to do.

Mummification.

How can you have any worries when you are mummified, completely enclosed in clingfilm and duct tape or encased in a body bag? A dark, secure place where nothing can penetrate. Apart from me, that is, with a pair of scissors and a pair of nipple clamps, a couple of pinwheels, my leather gloves all ready to twist those testicles I've just exposed.

Urethral Sounds.

No they don't actually make a sound. You will though. Probably something like 'Oooaaahhmmmm,' when you realise you have lost control of your cock and I'm sliding the cold, lubricated metal into you, in a way which actually doesn't hurt at all.... it's most delicious, in fact.

Couples.

I'm very happy to session with couples, whether it's joint domination you are looking for or whether you are a wanting to add excitement to your relationship by introducing some femdom activities. All enquiries for this must be made by the woman.  No exceptions.

Pre-session & new clients.

We have a pre-session chat (we will have already talked on the phone) to go over any health issues you may have and to go into more detail about your past fetish/BDSM experience - if any. We discuss what you want to get out of the session, hard limits, favourites and so on. I understand very well that you could be feeling apprehensive or scared, especially if it's your first visit to a Mistress. You will have time to relax and ask me anything you want. I do everything I can to put all my clients at their ease beforehand - even the experienced ones can get nervous!